You know what's pretty great?
Not giving a fuck at all.
No I'm serious. Life becomes so much brighter and happier the less and less you care about the trivial things or what people will think of the choices you make.
At the end of the day your choices are yours, your life is yours, and as long as you're living your life on your terms and doing what makes you happy, you WILL be happy.
It's not a crazy concept. I've been living like this for only a few years now but my years seem to get better and better.
No hesitation, I just know what I want and I do what I can to achieve it without thinking twice.
That doesn't mean I don't have morals though. The only cases in which this doesn't apply for me is if my act were selfish and would affect another persons life in a negative way. That would NEVER make me happy. So I never do that.
Happiness isn't this elusive ever escaping thing, it's completely attainable. People are often too worried to chase what they want in fear of what people might think. What needs to be realized is it really never matters what anyone thinks. You will be much happier achieving and going after what will really truly make you happy than to avoid it based on other people. Even if they do have something to say do you know how quickly they'll forget about it? And also, do you really really care what anyone thinks of you? Because you shouldn't. There is nothing more freeing than being completely confident in who you are.
True happiness is being true to yourself and loving yourself enough to know that you deserve whatever you want in your life.
Just Live.
xx D.
